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A QUICK WAY A HUSBAND CAN KILL THE ROMANCE IN A YOUNG MARRIAGE 2



By Royal David:

Are you just realizing that Cinderella has been in fantasy land? The same land you helped her built while you were courting? Now let me jog your brain a little so you can understand how your negligence in these things can kill the romance in your happy married life.
Now when was the last time you swept her off her feet? I mean literally carried her and spinned her around until you both fell on the floor and laughed like little children. When was the last time you had your usual sunday outing? What was the last gift you gave her and when, on her birthday? But you used to do these things and more in the first few months of your marriage,  now you want her to wake up from what was suppose to be her happily ever after? You might ask "if I don't do those things why can't she?" Like I explained before in part1, some things are meant for ladies and some for men. You don't expect her to carry you and spin you around,  do you? I don't think so, its a bit awkward. ...lol. Okay, you might also say but then I wasn't as busy as I am now or I buy her gifts,  expensive gifts. True! ladies like gifts but most times they are not really moved by the size or cost of the gift but by the genuineness of the heart that offers them. 

You see, all she really needs is you, show sincere concern and cut out the busy attitude when it comes to your wife and home, it's a responsibility you vow to keep.  Listen to her and give a few comments when she is speaking, stay and talk with her in the kitchen even if you are not assisting, give her those sincere complements and encourage her, hold her close to your chest like the first time you had the opportunity to do so. These things are not unrealistic or asking for too much,  you were doing them before and like I said ladies are dreamers but you too can keep at it because what you need is a beautiful home filled with love and excitement to return to after the days job.

Hmmmmmm I hope we have come to an understanding guys.  But if you have a contrasting opinion,  bring it on, after all learning is what we will always do as long as we breathe.

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