Written by Royal David
There are different events of our
lives from time to time, from birthday parties, to matriculation and
convocation party, to wedding event, celebration of a new baby, house,
promotion, chieftaincy title, successful projects and what have you. But none
of this various occasions or events requires more of the celebrants’ attention
like a wedding ceremony.
Can you remember how your aunt or
sister, brother or friend was preparing for their wedding? Can you remember how
they would run to and fro, trying to get things done and take pain reliever
some of the nights? You know this was entirely different from when they were
preparing for other events of their life. This is because it’s indeed an important
occasion in ones life, one that draws the attention of most guests. They want
to see who and how the bride or groom looks like, they want to see how stylish
or classy the event would be, and it’s an opportunity to meet with old skool
friends and alumni of different groups. You can not afford to let this special
occasion be treated likely so as not to get things ruined, as you are also trying
to meet expectations or at least your parents (you know what I mean, your folks
trying to show off with your event to their friends especially mothers)
From previous article we had made
ourselves conversant with the importance of proper, prior, planning and
budgeting of our wedding event. But I must tell you that wedding preparation
involves a lot of attention. But you are not going to cease from your duties at
work because you have a wedding to prepare for, you boss wouldn’t listen to
that, trust me! If I were the one I wouldn’t too, except you take your vacation
or work leave for that period, else the work will suffer.
Now that you know you must do
other things, you need support, someone to fill in the gap for you. Support is
simply aiding the cause or interest of someone or something either as a
complement or supplement. One way or the other every person needs support and
it is true that you’ll get support from family and friends, but here I’m
talking about professional support, one backed up with acquired skill,
knowledge and experience.
In this part of the world where I
come from, most people find it difficult to pay for services they think they
can do by themselves with little or no stress. Some years back I have heard or
even seen some ladies braid their hair by themselves, with both hands and a
mirror for guidance, but the problem was that it wasn’t easy as the hands often
gets weary and feel pains, and they were
also limited to a particular hair style (an African hair weave called “all
back”) Time passed and other more lovely but complicated hair styles that required
the use of hair-extension (attachment as it is popularly called in Nigeria)
were formed and then they needed the assistance of an hair stylist. Thank God
for the advent of global civilization and technology, people have come to
welcome paid services. Hardly would you find a lady make up herself for her
wedding (gone are those days), apart from the glamour associated with it, most
ladies employ the services of a make-up artiste because they need quality and
want to be at their best with a special sparkle feeling, that only a
professional can give.
So if you are still saying I can
do it all by myself, you are just going to give yourself some serious stress, fatigue
and probably a low quality and satisfaction. Common! “Let the children have
their bread” these guys are trained for these to give you quality, full utility
and excellence.
“Excellence is the result of caring more than others think is Wise,
Risking more than others think its Safe, Dreaming more than others think is Practical,
and Expecting more than others think is Possible” – Ronnie Oldham.
Ladies, get a make-up artiste,
get a hair stylist get a wedding planner, and get all the professional help you
can get for your wedding event. They can do it better than your sisters,
brothers, mother or friends except they too have been trained with the basic
skills and knowledge in that field. These service providers are here to make
your job easy with excellent delivery, just like your washing machine and fruit
blender, think of it as a professional support and it’s far cheaper and safer than
trying a novice or proletarian.
Remember everyone needs support
as no man is an island of himself. Am trusting that as knowledge come to you,
you are no longer rigid as to getting such service providers for your beautiful
wedding no matter the cost, because you deserve simply the best for that
occasion.
(For inquiries on wedding tips, good wedding vendors in
Nigeria or you need an excellent wedding planner that can give you the best
with your budget, contact us on royaltyokasions@gmail.com
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