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WEEDDING BELLS: RMD'S SON KOME SET TO MARRY HIS YORUBA LOVE

The famous veteran Nollywood actor and Delta S tate commissioner for culture and tourism Richard Mofe Damijo AKA RMD, has cordially informed and booked his close pal s via an sms of the up-coming wedding ceremony of his first son Kome. Below is his message; “Pls save 12th & 14th Dec in ur diary for the union of our son Kome & his love Eniola, pls keep them in your prayer and more updates to come later. Warm Regards…JMD & RMD.” Kome is a  a graduate of the London School of Business & Finance; Eniola Abiodun currently lives in Winnepeg, Mannitoba. It seems he like wearing eye specs...pretty girl he's got too. Congratulations to them in advance! Just like the Big Bros had said, remember them in your prayers. I'll begin the prayer, say Amen. I pray that all plans and preparation will turn out successful and that this union will bring great joy to both families. In Jesus name. Amen

IGBO TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE LIST (IGBA NWKU)

  Just like every other traditional marriage in Nigeria, The Igbo traditional paying of dowry is very important and the process/lists differs from state to state or clan to clan. During the introduction stage, after both families have come to an agreement and the date for the traditional marriage is fixed, the intending groom is official handed a list of items to present on the agreed date of the marriage. It is an obligatory part of completing the Igba Nkwu (traditional marriage) as the items on the list are said to be symbolic, covering different part of the marriage. Like I always say the list can be modified depending on the family of the bride, i.e. the bride to be can negotiate on behalf of the groom's family so that the list is trimmed .  Typical Igbo Traditional List for the Groom also applicable of Mbaise of Imo state. Section A: UMUADA (All Kindred Daughters)  - Wrappers and Blouse s (Nigerian Wax/Hollandis or George) - Jewelry (Gold p...

MAKE THE BRIDAL SHOWER FUN-FULL

           bridal shower pics of former M iss Ada Osuala now Mrs Ada Osuala Siekpe What makes it interesting for all? Location: It could be in a fine restaurant, bar, club, at the beach, flower or vine garden etc. It should be taken outside of the home, not the regulars.  For creativity it could be held around an activity like a spa weekend or movie weekend. If time and chance permits it can even be a weekend away trip with the ladies at a beach house or country side. Activity: Bridal shower is still a girl gab-fest but it’s even more fun with some extra activity. For some people the extra activity is calling a male stripper but aside that you can learn something new, like getting a pro to tutor the ladies on a topic of common interest, a chef to teach them a quick meal, small chops, shawarma or any other appetizers. And of course an old aunt or friend who is experienced and successful in marriage to advice the la...

SURPRISE THE BRIDE TO-BE (In: BRIDAL SHOWER PHOTOS OF NKECHI ONWODI)

Bridal shower it’s simply a party organized in honour of the bride-to-be by her female friends and her loved ones. Traditionally it’s a gift giving party held to celebrate the bride-to-be’s spinsterhood as she transcends to become a wife.  The bride is usually distinguished from the other ladies with a coronet and a sash. The custom originated in the 1890s, most common in the United States, Canada and by North American influence in Australia. However overtime it has spread to other countries even in Africa. It was originally arranged to present gifts to the bride with the notion that they commonly took care of the household deeds but however in modern times the bridal shower has been commonly dedicated towards giving of lingerie as well as small utility household gifts. Now what makes it interesting for the bride? It should come in a way of surprise; she must have no knowledge of the plans until she gets to the venue to see the surprise party. Invite peo...

MY YORUBA BRIDE 2 (NOW THE MONEY MATTER)

From our previous edition we looked out the items on the list as part of the dowry in marraying a yoruba girl, that the groom will present at the traditional marriage of a Yoruba bride. In the course of the negotiation and agreement between both families, some money will have to represent and make things move faster, which is in accordance to the Yoruba traditional marriage, lets take a peep: Dowry – N20,000 Owo isigba (money to commence proper) – N1000 Owo omo ile okunrin (money for the male younger siblings) –N2000 Owo omo ile obinrin (money for the female younger siblings) – N2000 Owo iyawo ile (money for the family wives) – N1000 Owo baba gbo (money for older men in the family) – N2000 Owo Iya gbo (money for the older women in the family) – N2000 Owo Ijoko Agba (money for seated head of family) – N1000 Owo Ikanlekun (money to open the door for the in law) – N1000 Owo Plane (money for transporting the wife) – N1000 O...

MY YORUBA BRIDE 1

written by Royal David In Africa precisely, a traditional marriage is one that is highly respected by the families of the couples and as such cannot be done without. It’s also known in some places as the Native Law and custom. We have different cultures and ethnic groups in Nigeria but today we’ll be looking at the Western part. I wouldn’t want to bore you with all the details of the Yoruba traditional wedding but will simply give you an idea of the things you’ll need to come with to ask for the hand of your Yoruba bride. Below is a sample of an engagement list (it’s open to change depending on the family of the bride) 2 decanter bottles 2 bottles of honey 4 cartons of assorted juice 4 cartons of canned drinks 2 cartons or packs of bottled water 1 bag of salt 1 bag of rice 1 keg of groundnut oil/palm oil 1 roll of sugar in packs Salt in bowl Aadun in bowl 42 tubers of yam 42 ataare 42 eja osan 42 obi ajoopa 42 orogbo 1 she goat Basket...

PHOTOS OF DAVIDO'S SIS. TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE

Photos of talented Nigeria music star Davido at elder sister's traditional marriage; Sharon Adeleke to her sugarplum Yomi Ademefun which held on Thursday the 15th August, at the Ark, in Oniru Lagos. The likes of Don Jazzy, Tiwa Savag, Tee Billz, Bizzle, Emma Nyra, Eniola Badmus etc were in attendance. White wedding comes up 1st September in Miami.*Nice*                                                                                  The Adeleke Family, bride in middle .                        ...

ONE THING NEEDFUL

Written by Royal David  Good morning! Alas! today is your wedding. Its going to be a long day but very meaningful to you and your spouse, something you both have been looking forward to all along.  Now, you are going to have to make up your mind to be happy and to enjoy every beat of the day. Do not let anything get you upset, trust me there will be stuff to want to upset you …like; your special cuff-links getting damaged in the process of dressing up, or one of the ladies on your train is running late, or the media team failing to record or take a photo of your dressing section, for one reason or the other.  Promise yourself to get rid of any form of anger and remain happy. Now this one thing is needful before you head for church or the venue. Okay take a guess? No, No Nah! you’re close, yes that’s it. (oh i see you got it from the opening pics, smart one). It very important, and that’s why am writing to you about this one needful thing you must ...